tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7641217072720565534.post6914294736333383141..comments2012-01-05T05:32:52.629-08:00Comments on The Inner Workings of an Underestimated Mind: Burst my BubbleInner workings of an underestimated mindhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07099306243247939316noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7641217072720565534.post-72460326503736079842012-01-05T05:32:52.629-08:002012-01-05T05:32:52.629-08:00Oh, good!!! Glad all ended well!!!Oh, good!!! Glad all ended well!!!Heather (ShoeGirl)https://www.blogger.com/profile/04474723620221675075noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7641217072720565534.post-45866077742510022372012-01-04T18:26:25.483-08:002012-01-04T18:26:25.483-08:00Ok, so it went well. I brought my son to my room, ...Ok, so it went well. I brought my son to my room, shut the door as not to embarass him in front of his sisters. I asked him...was it you that went to those sites?? He says yes mommy and I won't ever do it again...he looked like he was going to cry, he is my only boy and he hates disappointing me. But in this instance I could not be mad at him at all. I told him I am not mad at you for looking at those sites, I am upset that you lied to me. I told him I understand that he is curious, and it is very natural for him to want to explor. However I explained that this being a family computer it is not ok. I asked how he would feel if his 3 year old sister...who comes on the computer quite frequently...came across those sites. He said he would not like it. I know he will explore these things a million times more, but I feel better to have had this chat with him. I am proud that he came clean, and I am proud with myself with getting through this with my only son. It was not as bad as I thought it would be ;)Inner workings of an underestimated mindhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07099306243247939316noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7641217072720565534.post-78721363976524131742012-01-04T13:29:04.879-08:002012-01-04T13:29:04.879-08:00Just take a deep breath, and remember - "inno...Just take a deep breath, and remember - "innocent until proven guilty"! Like you said, it's a normal part of growing up. As long as they understand the boundaries, things should be fine.<br /><br />Wifey's right though - makes me wonder what might be on our son's computer... Hmmm... may have to check that!Iceman Streetzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11498569921378931834noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7641217072720565534.post-89086994781214388502012-01-04T12:24:11.746-08:002012-01-04T12:24:11.746-08:00LOL!!!! I think my first reaction would be to fli...LOL!!!! I think my first reaction would be to flip also, however, I HOPE not. My son has a computer w/internet access in his ROOM...and he is gonna be 13 soon. I KNOW I have to check the history every so often, but I'm scared. I may just make Hubby do it for me. I check his FB/Twitter from my computer, but I'm scared what I'll see on his! :/<br /><br />Good luck w/the convo!!!Heather (ShoeGirl)https://www.blogger.com/profile/04474723620221675075noreply@blogger.com